[Money Mindset Challenge] Day 9 – Healthy Money Relationship

We’re entering Day 9 of the Money Mindset Challenge…

Are you noticing a difference in your attitude toward money? I hope you decide to take action on from yesterday’s session. Nature abhors a vacuum… Making Room for Money is an easy way to create fast change.

In Morgana’s Financial Alchemy book she says your relationship with your money parallels the relationships in your life. I just love the idea about developing a relationship with money… especially a healthy one.

Building a healthy relationship with your money is our second strategy to nurturing your new money beliefs.

What is a healthy relationship?

Healthy relationships are about feeling good about who YOU are and feeling SAFE with another person.  The relationship allows for individuality, bring out the best in both of you, and invites personal growth. Healthy relationships show emotional warmth.

Four Key Ingredients of a Healthy Relationship

Communication:

Your communication is based on honesty and trust.  You should both should feel comfortable talking and sharing your thoughts. Communication also involves listening to each other.

Sharing:

By listening carefully, sharing your thoughts and feelings with another shows you feel they are an important part of your life.

Respect:

You respect each other for who you are. You work through disagreement together.  You enjoy spending time with each other. You honor each others boundaries.

Trust:

Very Important in a relationship. You trust the other person will be there to listen to you and support you. Your conversations are honest with each other. You feel safe.

The Surprising Relationship

Little over year ago I sent Morgana an email telling how Financial Alchemy transformed our lives. We were receiving so many blessings. (and continue to)

I also shared this about my relationship with my Money Honey Antoine. 

As money come in, I realized I didn’t have the skills to "manage" it.

I ask Antoine how do "manage" money better.

Antoine said, we are in a relationship… you don’t manage a relationship, we’re partners. You take care of it. Would you want your husband to "manage" you. You’ve been married for 25 years not because you two "managed" each other but because you two cared for each other.

I asked Antoine how do I take care of money. Boy did he guide on what to do.

I have a dedicated spot in my office where I take care of our finances. I look forward to "visiting" that spot.

I began to develop a better relationship with myself… taking better care of myself.

I acquired more faith in myself and became more comfortable with who I am. This also extended to other people too. If you don’t have a healthy relationship with yourself, it’s hard to have one with others.

Healthy relationships bring happiness and health to our lives. Studies show people with healthy relationships really enjoy more happiness and less stress.

This is so true in our home… man the stress levels went way down… along with worry and fear. I feel such an inner calmness and peace.

This is not a do once program… it’s ongoing. Using the Financially Alchemy Workbook 12 Steps of Magic and Manifestation allowed me to heal my relationship with money.

This workbook keeps my money relationship growing stronger. Every week I write what will make money happy.  This makes loving him a priority.

Your relationship with your money really does parallel with the relationships in your life.

Working on a healthy relationship with your money will keep you moving forward.

Your 21 Day Money Mindset Step:

Download today’s action sheet for your Money Mindset Play Book and complete Day Nine action steps. You’ll find the download link in your email. (don’t miss a single day of the 21 Day Challenge, make sure you’re getting my update alerts via email!)

Tomorrow we’ll talk about seeing and believing yourself as a Worthy Person

Ann Rusnak

Other posts of the series

1. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 21 - The Eighth Step Toward Riches
2. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 20 - Forgiving Mistakes
3. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 19 - The Law of Circulation
4. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 18 - Attitude of Gratitude
5. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 17 - Simple Steps to Stop Lack Mentality
6. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 16 - Picture Yourself With Money
7. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 15 - How Money Works
8. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 14 - Your Most Important Relationship
9. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 13 - Stopping Fear
10. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 12 - Money Affirmation Video
11. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 11 - Disarming Your Money Critic
12. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 10 - Self Worth and Net Worth
13. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 9 - Healthy Money Relationship (This post)
14. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 8 - Making Room for Money
15. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 7 - Power of Your Subconscious Mind
16. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 6 - The Truth About Sowing and Reaping
17. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 5 - Ooh La La I Like Him
18. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 4 - Your Secret Companion
19. [Money Mindset Challenge] Day 3 - Talk Nice To Money